How to create an alter ego

Your ultimate guide ✨️

Ever notice how Beyonce becomes Sasha fierce? There is a reason so many successful women have a secret weapon: the alter ego.

Creating an altr ego isn’t about becoming someone else, it’s about stepping into your full power by embodying the version of yourself that doesn't second guess her worth.

As humans we tend to put limitations on ourselves. We label ourselves as shy, or too loud, or tell ourselves we can't do something, or it’s not for people like us. But why? The only reason we believe we can't do something or have something is because the limits in our mind.

So what if we could create a version of ourselves without those limits? What if she had the courage and the confidence?

My alter ego is very different from the me you see if real life! In reality i am not fancy, my nails are usually chipped, I am happy and calm and very laid back.

My alter ego? She is who I become when I have financial goals to meet. She is who I become when I need to be more put together and ambitious. I call her the Birkin mom, she is wrapped in luxury and I created a whole new blog about her that you can read below!

Sometimes our alter ego can be created out of a version of ourselves that we never allowed to be. For example: I grew up in a culture that primed me to be a housewife, to cook and clean and have children. So, my alter ego is the opposite of her. Who is that version for you? Start there.

Here's how you can create your own alter ego. The version of you that lives without limits.

💋 Step one: Define your why

Ask yourself why do I need an alter ego?

• To show up boldly in my business?

• To speak more confidently?

• To release guilt and feel powerful?

• To embody wealth and Femininity?

Your why will anchor your alter egos purpose. She is not random, she is built with intention.

✨️ Step two: Visualize her

Spend some time with your eyes closed and see if you can see a version of her.

• What does she wear?

• What does she look like?

• How does she speak?

• What are her routines?

• What are her interests and hobbies?

• What is her personality like?

This will can be very different from you and that’s ok, that is the whole point.

Tip: Create a Pinterest board of images that represent your alter ego. Add images like the house she lives in and the car she drives. Choose pictures that get you excited. Have fun with her! You can always come back to this Pinterest board when you need some motivation.

🪞 Step three: Give her a name

Naming your alter ego makes her real. Think about her energy. Choose a name that suits her. If you have a name that you have always loved, give it to her.

This is the name that you become when you need your alter ego. Just like Beyonce embodies Sasha fierce when she steps onto the stage.

🖤 Step four: Dress the part

Have a few things in your closet that your alter ego would wear. This can be totally different to how you normally dress. You can wear these pieces when you need to embody your alter ego. Go shopping for pieces that she would wear. It can even be jewelry or a pair of shoes.

These will become your daily triggers for your mind to step into her energy.

Tip: Give her a signature scent and wear it when you need to be her.

✨️ Step five: Create her rituals

How does she start her morning? What does she journal about? What would she never tolerate but you do?

Start to build her rituals and get creative about implementing them in your own life.

Some examples:

• If your alter ego takes very good care of herself, try and create a skin care regime that you normally wouldn't do. Commit to it.

• If she works out three times a week, start working out three times a week with her energy.

• What time does her day start? Could you wake up at that time a few times a week?

• If she is happily married but you are not, go on a few dates, act like you are already married and the person will come. Before you go on the date, envision them being your life partner. Affirm ‘I am married to the love of my life’

🌙 Step six: Use her strategically

You don’t have to live as her 24/7 as this can be exhausting - but call on her when you need to.

If you are feeling nervous about a situation, dress like her or put on her perfume.

Dealing with someone that drains you? Channel her boundaries.

Trying to raise your wealth vibe? How much money does your alter ego have? Let that be your dominant vibration. Repeat money affirmations until you feel wealthy.

Creating an alter ego isn’t about being fake, it’s about being fully expressed.

The truth is, your alter ego already lives inside of you. She is your inner voice that tells you that you were meant for more. She is the part of you that remembers who you are when you forget amidst life’s chaos.

So go ahead, name her, style her, speak through her. She is the highest version of you.

Let her unlock the version of you that no longer waits to be chosen - because she has already chosen herself ♥️