3 Secrets to attract love before Valentines day
It is about 6 weeks until Valentines Day! If you are single, my goal is to get you a Valentines date, and if you are in a relationship, the goal is to get them even more obsessed with you than they were before ❤️
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So the feed back i get the most after people work with me is that my clients either meet the love of their lives, or the relationship they are are currently in, gets better and better.
I love, love and i love helping people find it. It is the main reason why women reach out to me for help.
You see, i work with a lot of women that have vision boards full of images and quotes of happy couples, their love corners are bursting with rose quartz crystals, and their bedrooms are ready and set for romance, yet they are still left single, disappointed, and struggling to find a date, let alone their soulmates.
This is how i came up with my 3 secrets to attracting love. My signature formula that has ended in 7 engagements, 4 marriages, and many more happier couples. I am going to reveal these to you today.
My method of Feng Shui is modern and uses Feng Shui principles blended with manifestation techniques. This is why the results last and my clients can always come back to these powerful tools, over and over again. They work.
My 3 secrets to attract love 💕
Secret #1: Wear a silk robe & romanticize your evenings
Ok, so this may sound a little strange but i can promise you this will change your world.
There is something so luxurious about changing into a silk robe after the day is done, it helps us to feel relaxed and deeply taken care of, and that is what we will attract in return.
THIS is the exact one that i have.
If a robe is not your thing, try a luxurious feeling pair of pajamas, or lounge wear that you love. It is less about what you wear, and more about how you feel.
Treat yourself like the luxury queen that you are.
Try this:
Light some candles
Change into your robe
Pour yourself some tea, wine, or drink of choice
Relax and romanticize your evening to the fullest
✨Feng Shui tip: In Feng Shui, fabric and texture matter. Silk and satin represent luxury, romance, and yin energy. When you are not wearing your robe, keep it visible - on a hook or drapes on the back of a chair so it invites romance into your bedroom.
Sounds a little woo-woo, but i have clients that spend whole days in their robes and it makes them feel magnetic to love, not only from their partner, but for themselves. Loving ourselves is the key to receiving love from a romantic partner.
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Secret #2: You can buy yourself flowers
We often think of flowers as a reward for being chosen by someone. We think of flowers almost, always as given to us from a partner. Sometimes we are even disappointed when we don’t receive them for Valentines day and other occasions. That is why we are now going to buy them for ourselves, to set a new standard.
When you buy yourself flowers weekly, you shift from wanting and longing into actively living in self love and abundance.
Bottom line, treat yourself how you wanted to treated by your soulmate and the soulmate will follow.
Place them where you will see them often:
Your nightstand
Your dining table
Your bathroom vanity
Energetically, flowers carry lifeforce. They raise your vibration and subtly signal to the universe that you are surrounded by beauty and care always.
✨Feng Shui tip: Place fresh flowers in the Love and relationships area of your home (southwest)
Choose:
Pink for romance
White for clarity
Red for passion
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Secret #3: Take yourself on solo dates
Yes, real ones. We can either sit around and dream of the dates we want to be taken on, or we can take ourselves on them and put ourselves in the energy of being taken care of.
If you want a partner that plans beautiful dates, enjoys your company, and treats you like a princess, you must do that for yourself first.
Solo dates aren’t pathetic, they are magnetic.
True story: My client from 2 years ago met her now husband on her solo date!
When you enjoy your own presence, you stop chasing love and that is when love shows up effortlessly.
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✨8 solo date ideas
Cafe date. Dress up, order your favorite drink, sit by a window and people watch. Bring a journal or a book but leave anything work related at home.
Flower market. Wander slowly, smell every bloom, be present in the moment with yourself. Bring some flowers home just for you. ‘
Solo museum or art gallery visit. Move at your own pace. Take note of what pieces you are drawn to. This is great way to reconnect with what we like.
Golden hour walk. Take yourself on a romantic stroll as the sunsets. Create a romantic song playlist to listen to as you walk.
Dinner date. If you feel brave you can do this out, but you can also cook something special, set the table, and light some candles at home.
Bookstore browsing date. Let intuition guide you. Buy a book that you really want to read because it makes you feel good.
Luxury bath or spa evening. Take out your favorite skincare items and bath products and treat this evening like an appointment.
Create something. Let yourself be creative. You could try painting, sketching, or make something new. When we channel our creativity we attract other creative ideas.
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I want you to remember that love isn’t attracted to longing, it is attracted to wholeness.
When you treat yourself like someone that is already deeply loved, you become energetically unavailable for anything less.
Have you ever been in a relationship where you weren’t treated how you wanted to be treated?
Take a look at how you treated yourself during that time. You probably made your partner the center of your world, when it should have been you ❤️
Your world is a mirror.
